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five rules in coping with unnecessary additional responsibilities.

Rule # 5
whine and cry if you must. always keep the reliable friends who would listen to your endless whines and make use of their shoulder for you to cry on close to yourself and your heart. especially those who has mounts of issues of their own to resolve but are still able to lend their ears to you. also, keep those who have the ability to sense your worries despite your full effort hiding it away from them. these two type of friends are worth keeping for a life time.

Rule # 4
study your subject matter from every angle. ask oodles of possible questions to yourselves and others with the knowledge of your subject matter. starting from the questions that you have already known the answers to- to the silliest ones that the answers are clueless to you. no question is ever too silly to be questioned. ensure to take the diffident mask off your face. not having the faintest idea is faint. plan a proper work plan.

Rule # 3
stay positive. bear in mind that anything and everything is achievable. plan your time systematically and make use of every single second of 24 hours given by God in each day wisely. if others are capable of doing it, then so do you. everyone has their own area of expertise. get to know your strength and weaknesses. do keep a distance from those with a strong negative vibes. you don’t need another additional unnecessary hassle around you. suck in only their positive aura if isolating yourself from them is impractical.

Rule # 2
execute your plans carefully. give time to yourself so that there will be no room for things to go south. you wouldn’t want to waste your time rewinding to rule # 5 out of disappointment during this execution process. do your best and give your all for this is the only chance for you to shine and prove your capabilities. awareness of your strengths and weaknesses helps a lot at this point. conceal your strengths above your weaknesses. make-believe to yourself that you are at the highest peak of your own mountain if you get the sudden urge of pessimism. it is your own mountain anyways, only you are able to position yourself where you want to be.

Rule # 1
reevaluate the end product of your subject matter. give yourself a big round of applause if you have done a good job even if the third party are not fully satisfied with it. you have worked hard for it and you earned it. on the other hand, if the result is not satisfying enough for you, you still are allowed to congratulate yourself for the effort that you have put so far and the new things that you have gained knowledge of. remind yourself that we are merely human and there is no such thing as perfection. dig deeper into the cause of this unsatisfying result and identify your slip-ups. don't try to improve, do improve. if this does not work for you, get back to rule # 5 and repeat each rule in detail until you have mastered all the five rules. or better yet, waste no time. skip rule # 5 and go straight to rule # 4.

just a friendly reminder;

there must be a reason for things to be the way it is now. and God must have had a better arrangement for you in the near future if not soon. have faith in God for he has planned each and every point of your life upshot.


pardon my imperfections if you figured that the above are my attempts in giving advice to any particular individuals. none in my intention of doing so, for it is just a memento to myself and a piece of my mind to be shared. i am nobody to give any advice to anyone.

i am just a lady who loves pink and owns a pink calculator remember?
and i reckon that is already a huge definition of my bimbo-ness.

thee hee~

good day to all of you.